I know that Boudoir when it first started to break onto the scene got a rep for bring strictly for brides.

Although 20% of my clients are brides, a huge portion of the babes that come to see me for their transformative experience are actually single as mother-fucking pringles.

Let’s get one thing straight: Boudoir isn’t some exclusive club for brides-to-be looking to give their partner a “sexy surprise” before the big day. Sure, that’s great and all, but why on earth are we still letting this stereotype dictate who gets to have this empowering, life-changing experience? Ladies, if you’re waiting for a ring to give yourself permission to feel beautiful, confident, and sexy, let me be the one to tell you—you’re wasting precious time.

Here’s the harsh truth: You don’t need a milestone, a partner, or society’s approval to celebrate your body. Your stretch marks? They’ve got stories. Your curves? They’re art. Your quirks and so-called “flaws”? Those are what make you you. And if you think you need a special occasion to book a boudoir session, then guess what? The occasion is you’re alive and amazing right now. Waiting for the “perfect time” is just another way of putting yourself on the back burner. Stop it.

Let’s also dismantle this nonsense idea that boudoir is just about being sexy for someone else. This isn’t about what your partner thinks; it’s about what you think. It’s about standing in front of a camera, stepping out of your comfort zone, and realizing that you are stunning exactly as you are—not five pounds lighter, not when you have a tan, not after a makeover. Right now. If you’re rolling your eyes and saying, “I could never,” that’s exactly why you need to.

So, here’s your wake-up call: stop putting yourself last. Boudoir isn’t about a wedding day, an anniversary, or a partner’s reaction. It’s about reclaiming your power, your confidence, and your identity. You deserve to see yourself as the masterpiece you already are. So book the session, wear the lingerie (or don’t), and own your space. No excuses, no waiting—just unapologetic self-love.