Lingerie is so OVERWHELMING.
I absolutely know the struggle, especially if you’ve never really gone lingerie shopping before.
But have no fear my sexy viper, I’ve got you.

The Rules:

• The fit matters; I know this sounds absolutely ridiculous… but please please please stop obsessing over the sizing on the lingerie.
Do you know how many times I’ve had clients come in a they bought all size 8 lingerie and they are truly a size 12-14??
Our brains sometimes trick us into thinking if you can snap it closed on your body, then they fit. NO MA’AM.
Please find the correct sizing for your body. The outfits shouldn’t be squeezing you, they should be resting comfortably on your skin with little to no indentations.

• Think material; Know the best materials for you! For me personally, I HATE anything satin or silk on me because to really hugs every single roll, and although we are here to learn to love our bodies just as they are, this material tends to accentuate things I don’t love.
Lace is always flattering!

• Think outside of the box; Keep in mind, you don’t HAVE to wear lingerie! You can bring in your favorite T-shirt, jeans, oversized sweater, tights, hoodie, favorite bra and undies, etc! You bring whatever you love that makes you feel SEXY!

• Trust your photographer; Okay, I know this last one is a little weird, but I need you to trust your photographer. Trust them to be honest with you, trust them to pose you so you aren’t just star fishing and looking like a deer in headlights, trust them to photograph you in your best light.
With me, I will tell you what isn’t fitting right, if the color is off, or if the material isn’t showing you off in the way you’d hoped.
I will ALWAYS offer an alternative and let you decide.

Finally, don’t overthink things. If you don’t want to shop because you are overwhelmed, then don’t! Bring what you have from home that you love, trust me, sometimes those are the best outfits!

If you want a full lingerie guide that will show you exactly what lingerie styles flatter YOUR body type, you can get it by clicking the button below!