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Dear men… | Orange County Boudoir Photographer
March 15, 2019
I came across this article today that had me confused and wanting badly to educate.
The article:
My response;
Men, we know you come from a good place. We know you think we are beautiful and don’t understand why we want our boudoir session done. But listen up…
We do not do our boudoir sessions for the pleasure of our husbands, solely.
Boudoir is for US. Not for you.
Sure, it’s an amazing gift, but we benefit so much more from our experience than you do, and that’s how it should be.
So, good, we won’t give your our boudoir photographs for Valentine’s Day, we will do it for ourselves.
Some of what this man said is sweet, but I’m upset with the things he didn’t say out of ignorance. Not acknowledging that us women can want something to remind ourselves of our beauty FOR ourselves, without it having to be for our husband.
Boudoir is the most beautiful, self-connecting, and powerful experience that a woman can do for HERSELF.
You should NEVER solely have this experience to please another. EVER. You need to want it for yourself.
We are women, hear us roar.
If you are interested in your own Boudoir Experience, email us at: photographybyalyssamichelle@gmail.com